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What do you care of others' thoughts of you (aside from friends)? April 10, 2001 My genius and wonderful friend Lashonda asked a really good question - a really complex question. I do not necessarily care to impose that you email your answer to me, but I would like that you would. Also, for those of you that are definitely not going to send me any type of response, at least sit back for a few moments and reflect on the question. It's a really good question, and it's a really great way to try to understand yourself and how you condition yourself to your surrounding environment(s). And withour further adieu... April 28, 2001 I care about what the people I respect think of me. And as far as everyone else is
concerned, I care about what makes me feel comfortable. If I don't like what's been said about me, it's
completely tossed aside. If I do like what's been said about me, then that's just a bonus. I do, however, care
enough to keep a pleasant appearance, to have manners in public, to keep my mood swings to myself, to shave my
legs, and to be a little embarrassed when my stomach growls in class.
- Claire Ragsdale
April 12, 2001 I care a lot about what other people think of me. It governs the way I act for the most
part, except when it comes to people or issues that are especially important to me. I am very aware that I
cannot and do not function in society alone, so I find myself striving to make those who compose my "society"
think highly of me. I don't think it's such a bad thing as long as you stay true to yourself. I don't
completely change myself for others, I simply mold my views so that they groove with others, not so that they
conform to them. Only when faced with a significant moral dilema do I go with my heart/mind without
consideration for what other people think. And, of course, if someone has something bad to say about the
people I love and hang around with, then that's just too bad - because then their opinion doesn't mean jack to
me. And I hope my friends feel the same way when it comes to me. *wink*
- Lashonda Watts
- Ryan Pate
Save a handful of close people in my life, I don't care what others think of me. One
must treat their existence from their own perspective to fully understand how to function on Earth, rather
than spending their life in a state of paranoia, constantly wondering if other people think poorly of them.
- Nick Disabato
Ah, so insightful ... sort of. Now we get to my point of view. That's what it's all about, isn't it? You know, being my weblog, this should mostly be about my point of view, right? That's the way I think about it, anyway. So on with my thoughts: What do I care of others' thoughts of me, aside from my friends? I do not care for ignorant or unjustified thoughts about myself, aside from the fact that the ignorant speaker is allowed to continue his/her uneducated ways and to continue to be a fool. I also do not care for the thoughts, justified or not, of those outside my own realm of living. (In other words, I do not concern myself with positive or negative thoughts if those thoughts or the speaker will not or should not have any influence, direct or indirect, over my life or my environment.) I do care for the opinions of those closest to me, my family and the best of my friends, for I depend on those closest to me to point out the many flaws that could hinder my performance in any of a number of activities. I do not adhere to every bit of advice I receive, but I always consider heavily and objectively the words of friends before coming to any decision over any criticism. I do not compromise my morals or values for the sake of reputation. And foremost, I do not allow another's values or convictions precede my own; rather, in the event that it is rational and necessary to do so of my own accord, I may allow for change to accept another's values or convictions as my own, whether modified to suit my previous convictions, or wholy to represent the ideas of the other that I have deemed rational in accordance with my own beliefs. © III Enterprises & neotope.com |
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